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I'm a good person. Why do I keep experiencing "low vibes" people and experiences?

Jun 13, 2023

This reality can be a confusing place. It's full of contrasting experiences, thoughts, and situations. When the stuff you want happens, all seems well in the world. But when the stuff you don't want happens, it raises many questions.

What am I doing wrong?

Do I need to buckle down and try harder?

Why didn't it happen as I imagined?

Am I not supposed to be happy? Successful? Rich?

Did I fail?

I consider myself a positive thinker and a "high vibe" person. What's going on?

Before we discuss why "high vibe" people experience "low vibe" stuff, let's review a few key points that make it easier to understand.

The above questions are common when looking at life through the physical lens of diminishment and separation. This lens, or POV, is natural. Nothing has gone wrong by having a diminished (less than, "low vibe" POV.

To even have a physical experience, the boundless nature of Nonphysical consciousness requires limitation and separation. If you remember your true connection to All-That-Is right now, you can not continue the limited physical experience.

When my mom was 53, she died of pancreatic cancer. I was 20 with no interest in self-help or personal development. Yet moments after she transitioned, I realized she'd reemerged into the love of All-That-Is. All the negativity disappeared as she reintegrated into the fullness of her Nonphysical self (that had always been there).

As a Nonphysical consciousness experiencing physical reality, you have multiple lenses through which to process life. The most significant (and not less critical) lens is one of disconnection. The auxiliary lenses are connection and multidimensionality.

Multiple lenses (POVs) help you create the desired experiences as you focus on this time-space reality.

The two main perspectives of this era are your Nonphysical (connection) and physical (disconnection). The lens of multidimensionality is beginning to come online as we explore the time-space continuum. We realize our multidimensionality through experiences such as mediumship, channeling, and intuition.

Nonphysical is the POV of your eternal consciousness. It's a myth that you must die to "reconnect" with your Nonphysical self. You don't have to do anything specific to access more of your spirit-self consciousness.

It's here and now, always.

When looking at life through your "spirit" lens, things always look and feel better. The feeling of ease proves you're flowing energy in the same direction as your Spirit self.

When looking at life through the physical lens of limitation and separation, things always look worse. The feeling of dis-ease proves that you're flowing energy in the opposite direction of your Spirit self.

If you didn't have a constant source of well-being flowing through you 24/7, you would not be able to feel unwell. Unwell is relative to well. There must be a constant (well and connected to unconditional love) to realize variables (variations of unwell or disconnected to unconditional love).

Everything is relative to the connected, unconditional love of the Spirit aspect of self.

Your spirit POV is active 24/7 as you:

  • Read this blog post.
  • Make breakfast.
  • Go to work.
  • Brush your teeth.
  • Talk to your kids.
  • Sip your tea.
  • Clean your house.
  • Celebrate.
  • Process sadness.
  • Listen to music.
  • Take care of your pets.
  • Mow the grass.
  • Travel.

How you feel about any of these activities depends on your POV. How you feel tells you the degree to which you are currently exploring your different lenses.

You know whether you're flowing energy in the same or opposite direction to your stream of well-being based on how you feel.

When looking through binoculars, if the barrels are spread too far apart, reality seems split in two. When you adjust the barrels closer together, the optics change, merging the two images. Separation from Spirit is an illusion, like looking at life with your "barrels" spread too far apart.

Merge the ideas of Nonphysical and physical POV, and the power of multidimensionality predominates. You "bounce back" from the appearance of disaster much faster. You quiet the voices that ask, "Why am I experiencing "low vibe" people and experience?" because you understand the necessity and obvious benefits of looking at life through various lenses.

You are 100% divinely connected to the broader spirit aspect of yourself now. Recognizing Who-You-Really-Are is not only meant for particular "special" or "chosen" people.  All humans are divinely connected to Source energy.

Why do you keep experiencing "low vibe" people? A few reasons.

1. Vibrational diversity.

2. Contrast helps with clarity.

3. It's a time of expanding consciousness.

4. The Eye of the Needle.

Vibrational Diversity

Vibrational diversity is the idea that this reality is based on different vibrations. You are a vibrational being, first and foremost, and the variance of that essence is the basis of existence.

Everything is vibration first, perception second. Physically, you translate vibration as sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch. Nonphysically, you translate vibration as thoughts, visualizations, intuition, awareness, and emotion.

Everything would be the same without vibrational diversity, and nothing would expand. Diversity is the basis of an infinite university. There can always be a new POV and more or less of something. There will always be a self-aware reflection capable of discernment.

"Low vibe," as used in the title of this blog, is typically a term of judgment. It's meant to convey a sense of victimhood and confusion. Why did that thing, which I view as bad, happen to me? I'm a good person!

There would be no differentiation if only "high vibes" existed in this reality. There would be no expansion of the universe. Vibrational diversity is essential to the expansion of the universe. Without it, we would no longer expand and grow.

Instead of using the term "low vibe" in the energy of judgment, you can use terms such as contraction and expansion. Energy contracts and expands. Swap "low vibe" for contraction or restriction. Expansion can be used instead of "high vibe."

Ask yourself: Am I in a state of contracting or expanding energy? How does my energy influence my POV? What positive outcome can I extract from this seemingly negative situation?

Contrast helps with clarity.

Contrast helps accentuate the differences between two things. When you experience what you don't prefer, you can more clearly know what you do. There is no other way to get to that level of self-awareness. In a sea of sameness, there can be no self-awareness or growth.

Instead of viewing experiences as negative, start using the term "contrasting." Contrast highlights aspects of a person, place, or situation for you to know more about yourself. What are you learning? What you do and don't prefer. 

Once you know that, you can more forward with greater clarity. Clarity is always a good thing.

It's a time of expanding consciousness.

We are living in a time when our multidimensionality is becoming clearer. There are more mediums, channeling, and intuitives than ever before. More children are being recognized much younger for their exceptional gifts and talents. 

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